“I was very scared when I received the diagnosis,” Fabian says. “I had to stop working, and for a period of time, it felt like everything was falling apart.”
The hardest part wasn’t knowing what treatment would involve. It was the uncertainty—and the fear that he might not be there for his family.
“My family, and the hope that I would get through this, became my motivation to keep going.”
At Joseph Brant Hospital, Fabian found more than medical treatment. He found people who helped him feel less alone during one of the most difficult periods of his life. His oncologist, Dr. Lisa J. Christjanson, stood out immediately.
“She was extremely clear and thorough throughout my treatment,” Fabian says. “She explained the different procedures, tests, possibilities and potential outcomes in a way that I could understand.”
For Fabian, that clarity made an enormous difference. When so much of his life felt uncertain, understanding the plan gave him something to hold on to.
“I was scared, but after that conversation, I felt that there was a plan, and more importantly, I felt hope.”
That sense of hope carried him forward. But Fabian remembers that it wasn’t just his oncologist who made a difference. Every person he encountered at JBH—doctors, nurses, staff and volunteers—made a meaningful impact.
“Their warm welcome, kindness and smiles made me actually look forward to coming back to the hospital, even though I was there for treatment.”
For Fabian, that human connection was just as meaningful as the medical care. There is one moment from his experience at JBH that Fabian will never forget.
While undergoing treatment, he developed pneumonia and found himself in the Emergency Department around midnight. He was extremely sick and emotionally drained. His wife was at home caring for their children, so Fabian was facing that frightening moment alone.
Then a nurse came to him and said four simple words: “No worries. You will be fine.”
“They were very simple words, but they made me smile,” Fabian recalls. “Somehow, in that moment, things felt better.”
It was a small moment, but to Fabian, it represented something much bigger: the power of compassionate care.
“I don’t know if she realized how much those few words meant to me, but I have never forgotten them.”
Today, Fabian says he looks at life differently. His priorities are his health and his family. Fortunately, his treatment went well, and he has been able to return to full self-employment and continue pursuing the goals he set for himself. But his experience with cancer changed the way he thinks about those goals.
“Going through cancer taught me not to take life for granted.”
For Fabian, having another chance at life means making time for the things that matter most—being with his family, enjoying the outdoors and appreciating the life he has.
“We are very fortunate to have such a great hospital in Burlington,” he says. “The professionalism and dedication of the people at JBH made an incredibly difficult period of my life easier to navigate.”
Fabian wanted to find a meaningful way to honour the people who had been there for him when he needed them most. Through a Gift of Gratitude to the Joseph Brant Hospital Foundation, he made a donation in honour of his care team—a way of saying thank you while supporting the same exceptional care for patients and families in our community.
His message was simple:
“Thank you for everything you do. Thank you for giving me hope, for taking care of me, and for giving me another chance at life.”